One of the biggest signs that your guy that you met through online dating is afraid of committing into a relationship is that he doesn’t plan too much. While some are scared about asking their better half about future plans, the others simply avoid planning it all together because they think it’s too big a commitment to make. If you want him to get serious about the relationship but you don’t want to scare him off then a smarter way to approach the situation is to start planning events and then expanding them gradually. Try doing it for the following week, then a fortnight and then a month. Do it till he learns to get comfortable with plans for the future.
If your relationship with a guy is off and on and it been going on like this for a while, you might want to consider either ending the relationship or continuing it the same way because when somebody goes on and off for a long time this is pretty clear that the relationship is only casual and nothing more
Things Are Great In The Bedroom
Most people admit that casual relationships end up with better sex as compared to a committed one. This is probably one of the major reasons why guys try to avoid committing to relationships altogether. If he is great in bed but most of the activities revolve around the bedroom then this is a clear indication that he wants nothing more from you than a physical relationship. If you spend time doing other activities which includes hanging out with your friends and doing things that both of you love doing together, then there might be an indication that he is interested in you but he’s just a little scared to commit.